Friday, November 14, 2025

Weekly Menu - My kids social life is better than mine.

 My guys are off to "Elite Retreat" this weekend which is an invitation only retreat that they earned at summer camp.  Darryl and I will have a quiet weekend at home.  Maybe we will go see if a movie if anything good is out and for sure get dinner! 

Friday - We are getting Pizza for lunch so dinner will just be simple - Whatever each person wants before we head out to take the guys to camp (So probably Mac and Cheese, Chicken Tenders, etc)  

Saturday - The guys are gone.  Dinner and date day for Darryl and I

Sunday - We pick the guys up early afternoon.  Darryl and I will head out from church to catch their last chapel.  They will be starving (camp food is questionable HA!) so I'm sure we will swing through a drive thru on the way home. 

Monday - No more eating out!  (No!vrmber!) we do have a busy evening though.  On nights like this my go to is Tacos.  Everyone can “heat and eat!”

Tuesday - Chicken and Dumplings!  Our menu shifted last week so this is a carry over

Wednesday - Youth Group.  My guys have been hungry before youth group since we eat lunch early due to piano and it’s usually just pb and j.  Chicken Noodle Soup it will be (made from the leftover chicken and dumplings) 

Thursday - beef tips and noodles and green beans 

Wednesday, November 12, 2025

Recap of October Goals

 So, this list of my October Goals is not the same as the list I posted at the beginning of October.  I had created one in my post and then reworked it completely on a different document and never replaced the original list.  I doubt any of you would have even noticed if I hadn't said anything HA!  I started out strong this month - I think that the boys and I are finally getting into a good routine daily and weekly.  We did have two really full weeks that messed up that routine some but then I got right back into it!  Whew!  

Here's a look at what I got done: (Also I copied this from a word document so it came over funny)

October Goals

Uncompleted Goals from August and September

1.     Scrapbooking Goals

a.    2025 – Complete February, March, April, May and June

b.    2011 – Complete April, May, June, July, August, and September

c.    Make a list of the 50 states not visited in the album and find pictures for the ones we have visited.

d.    2 months of memorabilia – put in albums or have ready to go in albums.

2.    Flylady

a.    August Routine – Swish and Swipe

3.    Master Bedroom

a.    Fix the drawers on the dresser (even if we need to empty it and move it out to work on it.

4.    Finish fixing the lawnmower

5.    Hang things in Josh’s room

6.    Fix the board on Nate’s bed

7.    Call Spectrum to change our bill

8.    Daily Devotions and Prayer Journal - I did much better with this in October as I work on this habit.  I did the twice weekly devos in my accountability group and also started a devotional on October 20th about making your home a haven that I've been a part of since it started about 10 years ago. 

9.    Co-Op

a.    Clean out my SR files and narrow it down to just want I need. I have made progress on this.  I will continue to work on it and also plan to get a drive to save everything on. 

10.  Piano

a.    Work on It is Well with my Soul for offertory. 

11.  Clean the Outsides of the Windows

12.  Sell the Terrain - We have made progress on this - we got it to start and are in the process of getting it out of the driveway

13.  Organize the TV stand Cords - Done (Thanks Nate!) 

14.  Memorize Verses for June, July, August, and September. (101-1001)

15.  Purchase Concert Tickets for Maranatha in December

16.  Research the Will Options given my friends - I did this and have read through various options (thanks to Dave Ramsey) and we plan to come pack to this in March when we get some tax money back. 

17.  Move Dad Koll’s piano

18.  Fix and/or Sell the Pop-up

19.  Repaint all the things in the house white (that are white)

20. Read Non-Fiction books (June, July, August, September)

 

October Goals

1.     Accomplish as many of the “old” goals as possible

2.    Decorate for Fall – inside and outside - The outside got decorated but, due to cleaning the basement, I didn't bring the indoor stuff up. 

3.    Scrapbooking Goals

a.    2025 – Complete July, August, and September

b.    2011 – Complete October, November and December

c.    Make sure the 2011 Memorabilia is in the album!

d.    Scrapbooking Date Goals:

                                          i.    October 3-5 (around Nate’s TKD Tournament) - there was no time! 

                                        ii.    October 10-12 (Virtual Crop Weekend) - There was no time! 

                                       iii.    October 17-19 – as much as possible

                                       iv.    October 26

4.    Cleaning Goals

a.    Basement – Continue with the overall basement cleanout.  30 minutes on any day that has the time (Usually Mondays, Tuesdays, and sometimes Thursdays) - I have made HUGE progress on this.  Josh and Nate usually carry stuff upstairs for me on Tuesday that needs to go in the trash or be donated.  We've moved a lot of stuff. 

b.    Clean and Organize the Laundry Room

                                          i.    Empty shelves, organize what is there, mop the floor and then seal the floor again.

c.    Flylady

                                          i.    Try to do weekly room cleaning - While this didn't happen every day I did tackle things 2-3 times a week. 

                                        ii.    October Routine – Do a Monday Morning Reset, a 15 minute night time put away,  and a Friday Home Blessing Hour. (This is really not as much as it seems)

1.     Monday Morning Reset – Taking the time to go through all the rooms and put everything away and reset for the week. Done every week! 

2.    Home Blessing Hour – Normally this is on Friday but with Co-Op it might happen on Saturday.  It is just taking an hour to dust, vacuum, and mop. 

3.    The 15 minutes at night is mainly to make sure the sink is empty, run the dishwasher, wipe down the sink, and wipe down the counter and stove. 

d.    Deep Cleaning/Decluttering Room – Living Room and Dining Room

                                          i.    Wipe Down the Walls

                                        ii.    Wash Curtains

                                       iii.    Clean and shorten the blinds in the dining room

                                       iv.    Clean the insides of all the windows

                                         v.    Dust everything – every Knick knack and photo

                                       vi.    Go through all the blankets, clean out the ones we never use, and wash them all - Done

                                      vii.    Steam clean the carpets - Done

5.    Clean Out the garage

a.    Empty every shelf, go through every bin, and then reorganize it so it is easy to get to things.

6.    Do the Fall Clean-up of the yard

a.    Cut down all of the weeds and pour stump killer in the big ones so they don’t come back

b.    Get rid of junk

c.    Maybe start removing parts of the swing set

7.    Date with Darryl

8.    Enjoy a Family Fun Day (My new goal of doing one a month) - Done (Josh's birthday day)

9.    Do prayer Journal and Devos - As I stated above - I am doing better with this

10.  Co-Op

a.    Make sure my joyful lessons are ready - Done

b.    Begin working on secretary procedures

11.  Piano Solos

a.    Work on It is Well with my Soul

b.    Pick an easy song for November

c.    Pick a couple of simple Christmas specials

12.  Plan Nate’s 16th Party at Chuck-E-Cheese

13.  Nate – Basketball lines – if he is still interested

14.  Memorize a verse for October

15.  Read a non-fiction book

16.  Find a soup, crock-pot or appetizer recipe that will be a “make again” - I have found crock-pot recipes.  

17.  Look Ahead

a.    Research Camping ideas for next summer

b.    Make sure December plans for our 25th year are in place

1October Plans:

a.    Get pumpkins and carve them as a family

b.    Go to a Tuesday Movie if anything good is showing

c.    Boulder Ridge??? - Nope

d.    Nate: Lakewood Band Senior Night - Done

e.    Decade’s Field Trip - this was cancelled as the museum is closed due to the shut down 

f.    Josh’s birthday Day - Done


Sunday, November 9, 2025

Our weekly snapshot

 Here’s a look back at the last week! 

Last Sunday Nate attended a fall harvest party with his Sunday Night Yough Group.  They had a chili cook off and Nate won using my Chili recipe! 

Wednesday night the boys  had youth group at our church. 

We took some time to take some fall photos - just a few outtakes. 
We took my mom a Diet Coke 😊
Friday night was our Co-Op Presentation night.  This was my joyful table. 


Nate attended an all nighter with friends.  




And then had a lead role the following day in a play and did fantastic! 

It was a great week! 


Micah Tyler - Praise The Lord (Official Lyric Video)

Friday, November 7, 2025

Weekly Menu - a Busy Weekend

 We have reached the end of our co-op.  I'm always ready for a break but we also miss seeing friends.  This is a busy weekend with lots of things related to our co-op though! Menu planning has taken a little tricky turn because I figure out a couple of weeks ago that my oven is not heating properly so for now, my oven is out of commission.  It's all ok - I have the stove top, crock pots, an air fryer, and a toaster oven.  I just have to remember that I can't cook a whole pizza on the fly LOL  

Friday - Tonight is Presentation Night for me; Nate is heading out on an overnighter with kids from youth group; Josh is planning to hang out at home.  We will be eating in shifts so I just plan to have all the stuff for Tacos.  Everyone can make their tacos/nachos when they are hungry

Saturday - Today is our Co-Op Drama (and Nate has a lead role).  By the time the play is done I imagine that Nate will be ready to head for home (not to mention the all-nighter HA!).  I plan to put a pork roast in the crock pot to have for dinner.  I will make fried rice and corn to go with it. 

Sunday - Simple Sunday Supper today - I am pretty confident that there will be left over Pork Roast (and/or Taco Meat) so I'm planning pork tacos (or beef tacos) along with bean dip and chips

Monday - My mom picked up some chicken drumsticks for us so I plan to cook those and serve them with some rice-a-roni and green beans

Tuesday - Turkey breast in the crockpot, stuffing and green beans  

Wednesday - Youth Group

Thursday - Chicken and Dumplings (a favorite!) 

Wednesday, November 5, 2025

"No" November (or NOvember)

 I went digging through some older posts from past years to find where I have talked about No-November in the past but I have yet to find anything.  Yet, I am positive that I wrote about it before - maybe I just mentioned in a goal post . . .. I have no idea.  



Several years ago I read/heard about the idea of "No-November" and really liked the concept.  Now, that are several versions but mine is pretty simple; say "no" to anything not already planned or on the calendar related to events and money!  I can remember that the reason this was inspiring to me was that we had been so extremely busy in September and October that I just wanted things to stop.  I felt like our time was overwhelmed and our money was running through a sieve! I wanted it all to stop; to snuggle in as the colder weather arrive; to save instead of spend.  It really put some things in perspective.  

My family cringes a little when I say, "Guess what month it is???" LOL  They all no exactly what I'm talking about.  Last week I said something about it and Nate responded with, I have a few things to talk to you about and get on the calendar before Saturday :-)  He knows the drill!  Even though my instant answer is no to everything, there are things that come up that do get a "yes" such a friends birthday party.  After all, I'm not really THAT mean!!  It does mean no last minute stopping to grab something to eat, or to treat myself to my favorite coffee.  Those are things that get a hard and fast no!  

Will we still do things?  That answer is yes.  Our Co-Op has its Presentation Night this week plus the drama.  My guys are heading off to a weekend retreat the weekend after that as well.  But I do say no to things like field trips and unplanned extra events.  This helps limit gas money and the need to grab a "treat".  

Spending is the bigger item.  I try to limit any extra spending.  We live super tight anyway (super duper tight!!) but it's crazy how those little $5.00 stops add up.  (Even things like adding my $0.99 box of popcorn from Meijer when I stop for gas adds up over a month - I know, a silly example but you get the idea). This time of year always seems to want money (yes, I did just type that and it is true - just think about it)  With Birthdays and Christmas; plus all the extra events for the holidays - youth group parties, friend parties, get togethers and more.  It is so easy to spend yourself crazy!  I work hard to find some fun free things to do for holiday fun or create our own fun at home.  

I recently updated our November calendar on the fridge and the comment from everyone was "Wow, that is so empty!" then came, "Lets keep it that way".  I'm trying my dear family, I'm trying!