Strength = 2019 Goal Overview

It's time to think about goals for the year.  I have a few friends who are as goal oriented as I am if not more!  Actually, my friend Tracy is an amazing planner and organizer and she always sets up great Facebook groups related to monthly challenges that she creates.  I love it because it puts many like-minded people together who encourage each other along the way and also provide accountability.  Last year, one of my favorite and most productive challenges came in September when we got rid of "the date" - in other wards, on September 1st, we got rid of one thing, September 2nd, 2 things and so on until we hit September 30th and 30 things had to go!  I cleaned out every cupboard and drawer and all the little areas in every room!  It was amazing.

Now, Tracy is a math teacher and planning 19 goals is hard because it is a prime number but . .. I'm just like, "What? it's 19" HA!  She decided to do 12 monthly goals + 7 daily goals = 19.  Great idea but I still tend to focus more on my list of goals and then try to work on them throughout the month!  So yes, it's ok to have different ideas with the same end result!

For my yearly goals I'm trying (key word - trying) to focus on some big ideas that I can break down into smaller ideas to work on throughout the year.

1) Stengthen our Family Finances - What can I do to help us being better of financially?
            -- I can finally start doing Shipt Shops.  Set a goal to do a certain # each week
            -- I can possibily get a part time job when my mom is living in the area
            -- How else can I save money on areas that we currently spend?
            -- Make one month (Januray!) a "no spend month" - spend nothing outside of fuel, food, and pre-planned items outside of bills.
2.) Strengthen my Health - How can I make "me" the focus this year - sounds selfish, but is it really?
           -- Schedule all of my appointments from Dental to Vision to yearly doctor appointments
           -- Add excercise to our daily routine - I don't know why this is such a hard thing to do!
           -- Continue to look for ways to eat healthier - not only for myself but work towards having my boys eat better as well and be willing to try new foods
3. Strengthen our home - I view this as cleaning, organizing, and updating. Finances always play a part in planning goals.  So, this year I'm trying to focus on things I feel I can accomplish.
           -- Finally get the shelf I want for my scrapbooks, organize them, and make sure they are current with what I have here.
          -- Paint the Dining room - we have the paint so it's just a matter of doing it
          -- Find a couple of art items for the bathroom
          -- Honestly I have a long list of items for our home that will be done based on funds.  Items from a backsplash in the kitchen to a new washer and dryer to replacing the garage door.  So we will see what the year brings.
           -- The basement and garage are always on the list :-)
4.) Strengthen our schooling - Homeschooling is an ongoing plan.
           -- Decide if Connections Acadamy continues to be a good fit for our family or find something different
          -- Always evaluate whether our homeschool co-op is meeting the needs of our family
          -- What other extra activies can/should we be involved in
          -- Get back to our routine of Math Minutes (practice) and learning cursive by the end of this school year
          -- I'm not sure this fits here but I really want to take the boys to read to the shelter animals, make trips to the library for books to read, and do other fun educational items that come up.
5) Strengthen our Family - This includes activities for our family that builds the feeling of togetherness
          -- Camp for the boys - Day camp and a "week camp" is what they would like to do.
          -- Look for one activity to do each month as a family (Going to the cat cafe is one of those items I really want to do!)
         -- Strive to actually have movie nights - even just once a month.  The boys both got Movies for Christmas plus we have access to movies through Amazon so I feel like we can find good things.
          -- Read.  I need to read more.  I have a basket full of books to read (I might go back to my old reading challenge !).  I also want my kids to read more.  Whether I read to them or they read alone, I need to figure out how to make this happen.
6) Strengthen our Holidays - this is a stretch but since my goal is "strengthen" I wanted to put it here!
          -- I finally started my holiday journal in November 2018.  It's my "brain" for the holidays.  So I want to continue writing it/updating it as we go through holidays
          -- Purchase 1 item for our Grinch countdown a month  - find neat and intriguing things to add to it that are inexpensive yet fun.  By doing this, it takes care of 12/24 days.  The other 12 will be candy, $1.00's, or activities.  This will take a financial piece away from December!
         --  Purchase birthday and Christmas gifts EARLY.
         -- Remember to purchase Halloween Costumes EARLY
         -- Try to find grade shirts and holiday themed shirts EARLY (get the idea - early is the key!)
         -- Keep the meaning in Christmas - I feel like we lost a little this past year because of unexpected car issues and only having one car (the boys and I couldn't do little extra things like library events); I also didn't do our normal advent readings or quick lessons at bedtime.  I think I let "life" steal some of my joy and I don't want that to happen again.
7) Strengthen my Scrapbooking :-) - Yes a big stretch again - but it works!
         -- I have a lot of goals.  One of the main ones is to be current with 2019.  That means ordering pictures on the first of each month for the previous month and then scrapbooking throughout the month.
          -- The other goals just include trying to get the years I'm behind on done - sorting albums, ordering photos/page prints and just finishing.  If I can get busy with Shipt, I feel like I accomplish this more.
8) Commit to Flylady (Ok, "Strengthen Flylady" just didn't sound right!) - I put in alot of effort back in September really decluttering our upstairs so I'd like to implement the Flylady cleaning plan again and really work on staying on top of it all!
9) Finally, I have other goals that don't really fit into any category and really don't fall under "Strengthen" but still are things I'd like to accomplish
           -- Play the piano more - As my kids are learning, I want to play more.  I've found some great links to free music on line that is more my "speed" - stuff I can just sit down and play.
           -- I only sing at church 2-3 times a year so I'd like to pick out 2-3 songs that I maybe already have on hand and learn them well so I'm ready to sing before it's even time.  I'd also like to pick out one Christmas song to work on and have it ready for next year.
          -- Plan and schedule camping trips - I'm not sure how many.  Money always determines this but we do have a family reunion in June that I want us to go to so that is in the works.

I'm sure that more things will get added throughout the year but right now, this is a good plan.

Happy New Year!!

From our family to yours : 

I am looking forward to a good year which is a good place to be at the start of a new one!  

I hope that you all are able to enjoy a quiet New Years day as you prepare for the coming year!

I'm hoping to be a little more active on this blog this year - I've taken time to read through lots of my old posts and I really miss posting!  

We'll see how long I can keep it up :-) 

2019 Word of the Year

Several years ago I read a post on a blog about choosing a word for the year.  I loved the concept and have picked one each year since even if I didn't always share them on my blog for various reasons.  Over the last couple of months I've spent some time thinking about what I would like next year to look like; where I would like to be at the end of the year.  Being that I'm a goal setter, this is a great way to help me focus on specific areas in order to accomplish, well, things.  I find that without goals or a plan I don't accomplish nearly as much!

I actually have two words to focus on for 2019.  The first is a word I've chosen for the past several years because I feel it is that important for me and my life.  That word is :

One of my mantras in my life now is to "not let anyone steal my joy".  It's really easy to allow people and/or circumstances to steal joy but if the initial focus in the mind is to not let that happen, it is harder for that to happen.  Notice I said harder?  Yes, it does still happen but I find if I look for the positive in all things, I am happier.  If I am happier, so is my family.  Last year I started to ask my little family each night at dinner to tell me one good or positive thing from their day.  Do you know what?  That was hard for everyone.  It was easier for my kids and my husband to tell the bad things; the things that went wrong or that they didn't like.  Especially at the beginning of this project.  The more I asked though, the more they were able to say something good - even as small as "I slept in" or "Mom got my cereal".  I also worked with them at finding the good even in difficult situations.  If they had things to, well, complain about, I would listen to their struggle but then ask them if there was anything positive about the situation?  Do you now what?  That's hard.  It's hard for adults and harder for kids but I would help them find something (even if it was "I don't have to see that person for a whole week!" HA!)  It always amazing to me at how much other people try to zap someone's happiness.  Sometimes I don't think it is intentional but sometimes it is and that's sad.  So yes ----

------- not just today, but every single day even when it is hard.

I wanted to add to this though.  To challenge myself to focus on something else too.  So, I picked

Where am I going with this, you wonder?  Allow me to tell you.  I want to add strength in all areas of my life. By the end of 2019 I would like to be stronger in my health, my home, our finances, with my children and my husband.  I'd like to be "stronger" in my goals by accomplishing some key things and to be stronger at completing some projects.  I think by focusing on being stronger gives it a more positive spin  - it make an end product more exciting because basically to gain strength means that you can handle more tomorrow than you  can today because you built on where you are today.  Like running - you don't start by running 10 miles, you have to work up to that point by laying out a plan, practicing, and working hard.  I feel like my unintentional word in 2018 was "flounder" - I feel like I floundered in a lot of areas; I just "got by" instead of really working to accomplish things.  I got lost in my head; in circumstances; in the ugliness that is life sometimes. 

What about you?  Do you have a word that you want to focus on this coming year? 

And Just like that it's 2019 (And a Weekly Menu)

It's time to wrap up the year!  Crazyness!

Friday - Spaghetti and Garlic bread - a super easy meal!

Saturday - We have our last family Christmas with Darryl's family today so we will be eating there.

Sunday - Beef Tips and Noodles - a great crockpot meal!

Monday - It's New Years Eve!  In the past we've had a couple different soups but I decided to change things up.  I'm leaning towards a simple stromboli/pizza for a "dinner".  Then we will have some snacks.  My mom is bringing a cheeseball and crackers, spinach dip and shrimp.  I haven't decided what I'm going to add to the table yet.  I was thinking of maybe some apples and dip or veggies and dip and just some regular cheese and crackers for all of the boys in the house.  Trying to keep it simple but enjoyable :-)

Tuesday - New Years Day!  I enjoy having a simple but nice "brunch" mid-morning.  Then I think a pork loin in the crock pot sounds good (and is easy!).  Along side we will have broccoli and rice casserole.

Wednesday - Leftovers :-)

Thursday  - BBQ Cups, Mac and Cheese, and Potato Salad.  Simple but good!

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas from our family to yours! 

Weekly Menu - a birthday and Christmas

In this weekly menu we celebrate Nate's birthday AND Christmas!  It's a busy but fun week.  I'm trying to keep the days not impacted by those events super simple!

Friday - Spaghetti and Garlic Bread

Saturday - it's Nate's birthday!  It's request for dinner is Pizza Hut :-)

Sunday - My mom is coming for Christmas!  We are going to celebrate Nate's birthday with her and my guess is we will end up at McDonald's or we will have Mac and Cheese at home - his choice!

Monday - It's Christmas Eve.  We enjoy snacks.  I have a few planned. We will enjoy our snacks around dinner time before heading to the Christmas Eve Service at church.  They also have some snacks after the service too.

Tuesday - It's Christmas!  I'm cooking a great ham dinner :-)

Wednesday - Leftovers :-)  I think there should be plenty to eat.

Thursday - Ham and scalloped potatoes and green beans

Super yummy all week long!

Weekly Menu

It's almost Christmas which means it's almost the end of the year.  I'm not quite sure where 2018 went but it is about gone!  We've been pinching pennies and eating at home almost all of the time.  I guess having one vehicle helps too - I can't go anywhere during the day HA!  That's ok, this time of year there are better things to spend money on than eating fast food so we are doing fine! 

Here's the plan for the coming week.

Friday - Beef with mushrooms and snap peas and Fried Rice, and crescent rolls

Saturday - Stuffed Cabbage in the crock pot (I'm not sure why I only make this on St. Patrick's Day - I really love this recipe!), crash potatoes, and biscuits

Sunday - Meatloaf, Mashed Potatoes, and corn.

Monday - Mac and Cheese and Corn Dogs

Tuesday - Ham and Cheese Quiche, Roasted Zucchini, and Cinnamon Rolls

Wednesday - Tacos

Thursday - I'm not sure.  I ran out of ideas HA!  Maybe leftovers or maybe I'll have made another run to the store and pick something else!